This is the top shelf of my computer desk. I managed to click this photo while Icarus, the devil cat, was on break. Starting with the big picture in back on the left is Mother. Then Uncle Charlie, Uncle Frank, Uncle Ray, and Aunt Lola on the end. This is probably the last picture of all of them together. This is actually the only picture I know of that has all the 5 in a group. And now that I think about it, I do not know if there is a formal picture like this of my siblings. There is a picture somewhere of us 5 girls, but Jake was not in it. So it would not have been complete. And we were setting in the kitchen of Dorothy's house when she was married to Ernie and they lived out o 4th Street in Hutchinson. Course Jake and Josephine are no longer with us so a picture is completely out of the question.
I will tell you about the other pictures and then come back and tell you about my Aunt and Uncles. The small picture on the left is mom and dad, before they were mom and dad. You know, back when they were Christine and Rueben Bartholomew. This is their wedding snapshot, I think. The picture on the right is mother's high school yearbook picture. And of course the little angel in the back would be me! That frame is now 69 years old. I should sell it on eBay, but I want to keep it, so I will. I always get what I want!
Now to the family picture. Most of you probably knew mother, but doubted the existence of any other relatives. The first is Uncle Charlie Haas. He was married to Aunt Edith and they lived in Missouri. Independence, I think. They had one daughter, Donna. Donna was not well and could never live on her own. One year when I lived with Grandma Haas and Great Grandma Hatfield, Uncle Charlie and Aunt Edith sent me a birthday card with a Silver Dollar in it with my birth year. I damn near broke both legs getting to the general store and getting rid of that money. Most money I ever had at one time in my life! At one point Uncle Charlie bought land in Woodland Park, Colorado, and built a new house. Unfortuneatly he could not live in the high altitude due to his high blood pressure and had to sell it. Mother and I tried to find it once from his description, but had no luck. Uncle Charlie died first, then Aunt Edith. Donna spent her remaining days in a nursing home and passed about 5 years ago.
Uncle Frank married Aunt Lila and lived in Lawrence, Kansas for the duration. He was a farmer and she was a school teacher. They had no children. I was always scared to death of Aunt Lila. I do not know if it was because she was a teacher, or she just looked very intimidating to poor little me. When they retired they bought a home on 30th street in Hutchinson, Kansas. He worked on the old tube type radios and had an extensive collection. When they could no longer function at home they moved to assisted living in McPherson where they lived until he died and then her. Mom and I used to go visit and it was so sad. Uncle Frank was very hard of hearing and had dementia towards the end. The last time we were there he was setting at the desk tearing magazine pages into one inch squares and piling them very neatly. He smiled at mother with the sweetest smile I have ever seen on a living human being. He asked her what her name was and she replied "Christine." His eyes lit up and he said, "Oh, I used to have a sister named Christine!" At this mother lit up also. "Why Frank! It is me!" He looked at her and you could see the wheels turn and he added. "Oh, no, she died a long time ago." Of course mother was crushed. Uncle died soon after that visit. He was 90 something.
Uncle Ray was the most wonderful man in the world and I shall not try to tell you about him in this post, but will save him for a special time.
The lady on the end was Aunt Lola. Aunt Lola was married to Alvin Farney and they lived near Plevna, Kansas and of course, were farmers. They had one son, Carl, and 3 daughters, Alvina, Rosetta, and Marilyn. Marilyn had a very high fever when she was about a year old. It did brain damage and disfigured her face. But she was a wonderful girl and helped Aunt Lola keep house and cook. Aunt Lola died younger than most of her brothers. See, in our family we live to be 100 years old with amazing regularity. Good genes and all. Mom was 80 and that was very young. So, the kids of Aunt Lola are my cousins and the only ones I actually know/knew. I am afraid I did not keep up with them. I do know Alvina and Rosetta married and had children. Josephine used to keep me up on that stuff, but alas, no more.
When mother used to tell me tales and the grandmother and great grandmother would remember the good old days, I did not listen. In one ear and out the other, so to speak. So now here I set and have no clue. We do have a genealogy book that traces our family roots back to Germany to the 1500's. I love to read the stories and am absolutely fascinated by what those pioneers went through to bring this squalling little brat into the world. Stop and think. If one thing had been different, I would not be here. It is all in the grand scheme of things. Everything that transpired all those years ago led to this day and this hour.
Think about it. My roots run very deep, but they are no different than your roots! Have a good one!