I now know the year! In 1996 I had given a class on building a panel for the big quilt in San Francisco. Someone wanted to know why there was no memorial of any kind for people who had died from AIDS in this area; why it was all so far away. So a few of us got to kicking it around. I don't remember who all was there and if I did I could not tell you anyway as that is a matter of privacy. (Did I say that out loud!)
AIDS was at that time a very misunderstood disease. We have come a long ways, but it is still misunderstood. It is a different kind of misunderstanding now though. People actually think there is a cure for AIDS. Nothing could be further from the truth. It is no longer a Gay Disease and knows no class distinction or color line. People are now living far longer, thanks to the "cocktails". But they are now dying from aging factors. The medications are so strong and the body is so toxic from them that bodies are aging very quickly. PWA's (People With Aids) never did die from AIDS. They died from opportunistic infections contracted through a compromised immune system.
I digress! I am not here to give you a history of the disease, I am here to tell you why we have this memorial. We thought about doing copper leaves on a brass tree. That was cost prohibitive. All kinds of ideas were kicked around and nothing fit just right. Then I had the brilliant idea, "Why improve on perfection! Duplicate the Big Quilt only do it little." That was the perfect fit! The quilt is displayed several times a year. Always on December 1, which is World AIDS Day and then a couple more times.
The blocks are 12 inches by 24 inches. The big blocks are 3 feet by 6 feet. That is the size of a grave. Our blocks are miniatures of the big blocks but they are no less reverent. Each block is stitched with love and memories and represents some one that was loved by someone. Not all the blocks have names. One says just Mark. Some give the full name, birth and death and a detailed picture of that persons life. The most moving block....
I think I will save that for later. I will get my first post up on Wednesday. It will be the first section we finished. I have got to be honest with you on this point, I am not sure I will be able to do more than 2 posts a month on this quilt. My heart and soul is in every block that is on this quilt. Some of these people were people I was very close to at one time or another. Some were children of friends, some were husbands, some lovers of friends. This will be very draining on me, but I fill back up rather quickly when I am doing something that I am as passionate about as this project. See you on Wednesday!
1 comment:
glad to have such passionaate people out their teaching and doing a memorial for the lost to the disease glad to be able to see some of the memorial quilt' A lot of compassion put itno it thank you Amy
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