It is amazing how the adages that I learned at my mother's knee come up in my life 65 years later. And they are still true. You know the ones like "Never look a gift horse in the mouth." When buying a horse you always check in it's mouth, but if someone gave you a horse you did not. Just be grateful for the gift. If someone gave you something and it was not exactly what you wanted, it was still given and it was free so don't complain.
"A stitch in time saves nine." That meant if you had a small tear in a seam that if you grabbed the needle and took 1 stitch it would rip no further. This also applied to many things in life. If you hoed the garden regularly the weeds would not get ahead of you. Same with dishes, wash them after every meal and you never ended up with a sink full of dirty dishes.
"You can not make a silk purse out of a pig's ear." This also applied to many things. In baking you needed to use good, fresh ingredients. If you wanted to have a quality garment you had to use quality fabric. In dating exercise due diligence and not choose a man/woman that was lazy, dishonest, or a drinker. You could not make a good marriage with someone who was not what you wanted. Marriage does not change a person so if a person was a player or lazy, they would remain so. That also fell under the adage "What you see is what you get." and "Be careful what you wish for because you might just get it".
Some of grandma's favorites in the dating department were "Where spider web grows, no beau ever goes," and "The way to a man's heart is through his stomach." She was a firm believer in the woman marries man, man supports woman, they live happily ever after and die a peaceful death within moments of each other. Well, granny was a wise woman, but life does not always work out that way.
I have a few personal favorites that I tend to use in every day life, like "Beware of Greeks bearing gifts." "All that glitters is not gold." and a personal favorite "Beware of the wolf in sheep's clothing."
Ah, yes! The pastor gave a sermon on Sunday about David and Goliath. If you recall that story it was about a Shepard boy who slew the giant. She told how as a Shepard boy he tended the sheep and had to protect them from the predators. Mountain lions and bears would attack the sheep and his job was to protect and save them. Hence he was very strong and very adept in the use of his slingshot and that was how he killed the giant. But, he had to know that the sheep were in danger.
How many cartoons have we seen where the Shepard is tending the flock and the wily wolf dresses as a sheep and goes to the middle of the herd? There the picking is easy and the Shepard only knows that sheep are disappearing and he can not find them. He could feasibly loose the whole flock if this continued! Kind of like life, huh?
Remember back over time how people have appeared in our life and we followed them blindly? Seems we had several evangalists that were wolves in sheep's clothing and we were not alone in our blindness. The Jim and Tammy Faye Baker come to mind, but they are not the only ones. Religion is not the only venue of the wovles. We read of political greats and we watch thier fall. Newsmen embellish thier stories and then fall from thier pedestal. Money is embezzeled by charities and the poor suffer. Famous people draw wealth to themselves, but with fame comes power and with power comes corruption.
Not sure where I was going with this when I sat down at the keyboard this morning, but here I am. My words of wisdom. Do I have any? I guess they would be, "Never let your guard down" ".Believe half of what you see and none of what you hear". " Learn to be a cynic. Trust no one." But those may be words to live by, but they are not how I will live. I will go on trusting and beleiving and following that small voice inside me that says, "This person needs you. This person is different."
The world may be full of wolves in sheeps clothing but the world is also full of goodness and kindness and understanding. I will continue to bring the sheep into the fold and if a wolf happens to wind up in our midst, we will deal with Wolfie on his level.
"A stitch in time saves nine." That meant if you had a small tear in a seam that if you grabbed the needle and took 1 stitch it would rip no further. This also applied to many things in life. If you hoed the garden regularly the weeds would not get ahead of you. Same with dishes, wash them after every meal and you never ended up with a sink full of dirty dishes.
"You can not make a silk purse out of a pig's ear." This also applied to many things. In baking you needed to use good, fresh ingredients. If you wanted to have a quality garment you had to use quality fabric. In dating exercise due diligence and not choose a man/woman that was lazy, dishonest, or a drinker. You could not make a good marriage with someone who was not what you wanted. Marriage does not change a person so if a person was a player or lazy, they would remain so. That also fell under the adage "What you see is what you get." and "Be careful what you wish for because you might just get it".
Some of grandma's favorites in the dating department were "Where spider web grows, no beau ever goes," and "The way to a man's heart is through his stomach." She was a firm believer in the woman marries man, man supports woman, they live happily ever after and die a peaceful death within moments of each other. Well, granny was a wise woman, but life does not always work out that way.
I have a few personal favorites that I tend to use in every day life, like "Beware of Greeks bearing gifts." "All that glitters is not gold." and a personal favorite "Beware of the wolf in sheep's clothing."
Ah, yes! The pastor gave a sermon on Sunday about David and Goliath. If you recall that story it was about a Shepard boy who slew the giant. She told how as a Shepard boy he tended the sheep and had to protect them from the predators. Mountain lions and bears would attack the sheep and his job was to protect and save them. Hence he was very strong and very adept in the use of his slingshot and that was how he killed the giant. But, he had to know that the sheep were in danger.
How many cartoons have we seen where the Shepard is tending the flock and the wily wolf dresses as a sheep and goes to the middle of the herd? There the picking is easy and the Shepard only knows that sheep are disappearing and he can not find them. He could feasibly loose the whole flock if this continued! Kind of like life, huh?
Remember back over time how people have appeared in our life and we followed them blindly? Seems we had several evangalists that were wolves in sheep's clothing and we were not alone in our blindness. The Jim and Tammy Faye Baker come to mind, but they are not the only ones. Religion is not the only venue of the wovles. We read of political greats and we watch thier fall. Newsmen embellish thier stories and then fall from thier pedestal. Money is embezzeled by charities and the poor suffer. Famous people draw wealth to themselves, but with fame comes power and with power comes corruption.
Not sure where I was going with this when I sat down at the keyboard this morning, but here I am. My words of wisdom. Do I have any? I guess they would be, "Never let your guard down" ".Believe half of what you see and none of what you hear". " Learn to be a cynic. Trust no one." But those may be words to live by, but they are not how I will live. I will go on trusting and beleiving and following that small voice inside me that says, "This person needs you. This person is different."
The world may be full of wolves in sheeps clothing but the world is also full of goodness and kindness and understanding. I will continue to bring the sheep into the fold and if a wolf happens to wind up in our midst, we will deal with Wolfie on his level.
"You can not sprinkle showers of happiness on other people without getting a few drops on yourself."
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