My oldest daughter called the other day and talk turned to my blog. She commented that she keeps getting on, but apparently I do not. And she is right! I have given serious thought to this and I have come to several conclusions. I was all gungho and had a fire in my belly when I started this thing. I wanted to write and I wanted to tell you things as I saw them and as I remembered the good old days, but some where I got off track. Other things crept in and the blog became secondary. I have lots of emails to answer every morning and I guess that is good. Ebay is taking a lot of my time and PFLAG seems to be more than I remembered. See, I have a lot of excuses, but that is all they are. What it actually boils down to is that I have lost my zest for life.
Along with the zest went the naivete that I used to have. I used to wander off with camera in hand and snap pictures and then come home and introduce you to a new friend, or moving scenery that I saw, or a place I found or an astounding bit of history that I discovered. Not any more. Now when I snap a picture, I am concerned with the light, the background, where this story will lead, how it will affect you, my reader, and a myriad of other things. Writing is now a job to do and not a pleasure. Too much of it is scripted. Do you know how long it has been since I have been up to Beulah to see Jan or John? How long has it been since I just let go and said what I wanted to say? I will tell you; too damn long!
So now I need a solution to the whole thing. I could just shut the blog down, but I do not want to do that. I still have things to say that I want to share with you, as my friends, so that is not really an option. There are not enough hours in my day, but there does not seem to be any way out of that one. God did it his way and I need to figure out how to live with that. I seem to recall a wise man some where saying something about "Life is what happens while you are making plans." That seems to be the crux of my problem. Life is happening! So maybe I should just do the living thing and kind of report on it as it happens! Seems like that is what I used to do and it worked out pretty well.
So no more morality lessons. No more crying in my beer. I have a barbeque to attend this after noon and I am going to take my camera. There will be kiddies there and a dog with three legs. And Tim has a new phone and it has the Periodic Table which he will show me. Maybe I can get my little sad sack (Tyler) to take a picture of me all enthralled with Tim's presentation. Or not. and then I am going to come home and dazzle you with my new lease on life! I am getting excited. Right now I have to go hoe around the cukes and peppers. Then I have to take a ton of pictures for ebay and get ready to head over to the cook out.
So you all have a good one and I will be reporting in to you tomorrow! Watch for me......
Along with the zest went the naivete that I used to have. I used to wander off with camera in hand and snap pictures and then come home and introduce you to a new friend, or moving scenery that I saw, or a place I found or an astounding bit of history that I discovered. Not any more. Now when I snap a picture, I am concerned with the light, the background, where this story will lead, how it will affect you, my reader, and a myriad of other things. Writing is now a job to do and not a pleasure. Too much of it is scripted. Do you know how long it has been since I have been up to Beulah to see Jan or John? How long has it been since I just let go and said what I wanted to say? I will tell you; too damn long!
So now I need a solution to the whole thing. I could just shut the blog down, but I do not want to do that. I still have things to say that I want to share with you, as my friends, so that is not really an option. There are not enough hours in my day, but there does not seem to be any way out of that one. God did it his way and I need to figure out how to live with that. I seem to recall a wise man some where saying something about "Life is what happens while you are making plans." That seems to be the crux of my problem. Life is happening! So maybe I should just do the living thing and kind of report on it as it happens! Seems like that is what I used to do and it worked out pretty well.
So no more morality lessons. No more crying in my beer. I have a barbeque to attend this after noon and I am going to take my camera. There will be kiddies there and a dog with three legs. And Tim has a new phone and it has the Periodic Table which he will show me. Maybe I can get my little sad sack (Tyler) to take a picture of me all enthralled with Tim's presentation. Or not. and then I am going to come home and dazzle you with my new lease on life! I am getting excited. Right now I have to go hoe around the cukes and peppers. Then I have to take a ton of pictures for ebay and get ready to head over to the cook out.
So you all have a good one and I will be reporting in to you tomorrow! Watch for me......
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