As for now, it seems that William G Bartholomew was born in Grand River, Missouri about 1867. The lovely Luella(Louella) was born in 1870-71 in Jefferson, Indiana. Some how the star crossed lovers met and married and little Reuben appears to be the first child being born on February 3, 1894.
Now you recall that back in the early years, census records, birth certificates and such were all filled out with a pen and ink. So some things are up for debate. For instance, on the first census record he is recorded as Ruby. Louella and Luella and Luela all appear to be the same person.
the point is, this is some fascinating stuff and I may have to give up my day job! So hang in there. I will have updates as I find them relevant.